• Violet@lemmynsfw.com
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    28 days ago

    Glow-in-the-dark paint, late night cuddle sessions, unique thriftstore finds, french breakfasts, cultural appreciation, skywalker and lemon kush, galvanized lights, children of the corn, art deco architecture, arts and crafts with a twist…

  • aguyinheat@lemmynsfw.com
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    25 days ago

    probably the fact i can break 100 orgasms, given a couple hours

    literally nothing else in my life is going well, but damn, i can hit 100 orgasms

    hard to be too upset about life after having 100 orgasms

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        21 days ago

        lmaoooo this is a great question

        i think this is harder (but still possible!) if you’re running on AMAB hardware, but i happen to have AFAB hardware while being on testosterone (i’m transmasc)

        so i have basically a small dick and a vagina and i can orgasm a lot from both, although the dick will eventually tire out (i was having a really good day that day and probably broke like 30 orgasms from fucking a toy) and just filled the rest with hole orgasms (i can pretty much cum indefinitely from the hole lmao)

        i also have a nervous system which is very friendly to orgasming and multiple orgasms and stuff. thankfully it doesn’t happen involuntarily ever, but i can cum quite easily from getting touched on my body, being kissed, having nipples played with (even post top surgery!), etc

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          21 days ago

          Well this makes sense now, I was foolishly thinking amab lol. I’m amab and maybe can maybe do 2 in an hour, and was like woah, what the hell 🤯

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            21 days ago

            it’s all in the prostate for y’all, isn’t it? altho i think, regardless of sexual hardware, each person probably has their own limit of orgasms they can have… i’ve been with a cis guy who was multi-orgasmic, it was pretty cool

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              21 days ago

              The prostate can make things interesting, but I’ve never had an orgasm with just that being stimulated. Maybe it’s the refractory period that throws me off. I wish I could unlock multi orgasms 😞

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                21 days ago

                i have no real advice but here’s something you could think about: my (already considerable) sex drive has gone even higher with me doing a lot more cardio. maybe you could get into cardio (which should improve your erectile health quote a bit!) and perhaps that heightened health and sex drive could help you unlock the mythical multi?

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    28 days ago

    Sex, drugs, and rock and roll!

    Well that, but also spending my days with my amazing wife doing anything from banging to puzzling to just watching the world go by. Also, helping others in need, bringing a smile to the faces of lonely people, promoting open source software against big tech, that sort of thing?

    Any of those make my day.

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    28 days ago

    It’s always connection. Be it with other humans (partner, family, friends, coworkers, etc.), or animals (pets, neighborhood animals). Connect.

    EDIT: Almost* always. There’s exceptions to pretty much every rule, after all.

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    26 days ago

    That moment when someone is trying to take control and fuck you up, and you’re enjoying it, but then you see an opening and you go for it. And you take advantage of the fact that they’re absolutely obsessed with you, entranced with you from being in love with you. And you pause, and you place your thumb in just the right place on their wrist, and you tilt your head a little and make eye contact, and you reach up slowly with your other hand to brush your fingers behind their ears. And just like that, you can do whatever you want with them. They’re yours.

    And you feel so powerful, in that moment, that you feel like you can change anything in your life, control whatever you want. Not just them, but maybe even yourself.