Thanks, you’re awesome! ❤️

Thanks for the insightful response!

Switching to a different layout was the solution for the redgif vids not showing in the feed. Thanks a lot!

Regarding the confirmation before seeing the redgif videos: this really seems like a bug to me. I have “Blur NSFW” turned off, I have the NSFW filter option off, NSFW posts are showing up in my feeds. Including redgif videos now, they start autoplaying. But when I open the same redgif post that was autoplaying in the feed in the single post view it asks me to confirm before showing the video. Like I said, the only way that I found to change that behavior is the turn on NSFW mode.

Thank you, good call! :)

Sorry you feel that way rn, hope it gets better for you!

Like some other folks in this thread I also don’t like the phrasing of the question. A relationship doesn’t put you in a position to decide what another person is allowed to do. A relationship is about what you both can agree and commit on that fulfills / serves everyones needs.

I dont care if my partners are doing sex work, although I might worry for their safety, depending on their practice. For Onlyfans specifically I’d want to make sure that they are fine with the consequences of getting doxxed / people finding out about it. Sadly there’s still a lot of stigma about doing porn in society and I think you shouldn’t take that decision lightly. On the other hand, fuck society, do what thou wilt! :D

What would be a problem for me is what I currently see as exploitative behavior in the context of OF. Leaning into and furthering the parasocial relationship with the subscribers to the point that people spend more than they can afford or that they neglect relationships in their offline life. I understand that there is a lot of money in this, and I’d be open to discuss and understand their side of view, but if I would come to the conclusion that they’re putting their profit above the harm that they’re causing, that might be a deal breaker for me. But I also think that you can absolutely do OF while respecting your audience and minimize potential harm.

I used to piss on my partners, I still do, but I used to too.

Please mark your post as NSFW. This question might also be a better fit for !nsfw411.

But to answer your question, have a look at !spitroasted.

Sadly you can’t follow a user (yet?). Some OC posters create an extra community for their own content, which you then can subscribe to.

You can bookmark the profile of a user in your browser if you’re using the web ui.