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Cake day: June 19th, 2025

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  • I don’t want to come across as a mysogynist or a misanthrope but this “It’s your fault that you’re lonely because you’re a trash human that nobody wants to sleep with” infuriates me, because I get that shit enough from my own head without it coming from outside as well.

    I don’t want to just sleep with someone, I want to be able to comfortably enjoy my time with people I like and then maybe meet someone likeminded enough to build a relationship with.

    I have a few friends, and spend time with them whenever I can, but 99% of my time is spent working or at home recovering from work.

    I know there’s the whole “You have to get out there and socialise.” and “Get a hobby and you’ll meet new people.” But how does a single man even approach people without coming across as weird or creepy?

    For obvious reasons I should probably clarify that I’m aware my brain doesn’t work like regular people’s do, and am probably doing the same shit as the old "people online; ‘Having throw pillows makes you part of the bourgeoisie’ / People irl; ‘Hey man how’s it going?’ " tweet, but god damn if it isn’t hard to have the confidence to meet people irl when all you see is things like the ‘bear in a forest’ trope and news stories about violent abusers reinforcing negative self bias.

    Who knows. Maybe I just need to throw my nightmare rectangle off a cliff and buy a phone that only does 4 things, text, call, tell the time and play snake.


  • Genuinely there needs to be a fee that companies must pay for the pollution they create, with it written into law that they can’t palm the cost off on their customers.

    We need to move shipping away from the ‘barely more refined than crude oil’ fuels they use

    We need to ensure protection of the oceans by making it so that outflowing waste from industry never reaches the watercourse in the first place.

    Single use plastics need to be removed from the supply chain (alternatively changed at the production level so they’re made from plant cellulose or a material that doesn’t break down into PFOAS or microplastics)

    We also need to block petrochemical companies from lobbying or interfering with politics, and prevent them from funding smear campaigns against renewable energy sources




  • Got a few science and tech channels; Tech Ingredients - in depth breakdowns of semi advanced technology from the perspective of a guy that can explain every step, how to build it yourself it and how to modify it to be better, may be a lecturer or just a very knowledgeable engineer. (most recent vid was building an underground heatsink to turn an inefficient window aircon unit into an absolute beast of a cooler, channel has also made DIY Graphene and ultra reflective paint for passively cooling buildings)

    AvE - ‘Good old uncle bumblefuck’ a guy that takes apart tools and goes through the good the bad and the ugly. Occasionally posts machining videos, often amusing breakdowns of cheap tools.

    Bigclivedotcom - Scotsman that buys ebay electronics and shows the good the bad and the ugly of how they’re made/what will kill you if it gains a fault.

    Acorn to Arabella; A climber with access to a few generations old woodland, hand builds a boat from a 1920s design, learns to sail and sets off on an adventure (currently out sailing, lots of very satisfying build videos such as melting lead over a bonfire and pouring a multi-tonne keel.

    Still tech-y but more lighthearted; Nilered - Modern day equivalent of a mad scientist, has made alcohol from toiler paper, grape soda out of nitrile gloves and cherry soda out of tolulene.

    William Osman - the most ADHD of adult neurodivergents, currently trying to make a farm in his back garden (where the ground is 90% sand) He runs Open Sauce, which is a technology and creator convention. Also wrote a tv show called Scare the Coyote

    StyroPyro - another mad scientist but with lasers this time, builder of the macrowave - a microwave so overpowered it can melt tungsten and make plasma out of almost anything instantly. Sometimes goes storm chasing.








  • Kevin spacey is the last person I’d call innocent, what with the distinct number of people that go against him get involved in mysterious fatal…accidents

    And his ‘I’m back’ and ‘kill them with kindness’ videos

    Its also a false dichotomy to say that a legal system such as America’s is going to treat trump and spacey the same way and ‘they can’t acquit one and convict the other when they both did the same crime’ They went up against VERY different courts under distinctly different circumstances (despite both of them diddling kids)


  • Protip; make sure to check the material is genuinely safe. Stainless steel, Glass and Platinum Silicone are about the only ones you want to get intimately involved with.

    A lot of toys these days are made out of unsafe silicones (anything plastic or flexible that isn’t made from platinum cure silicone will leech toxic chemicals over time) TPE, PVC, ‘jelly rubber’ and a number of other plastics. Because of the way they’re made, these materials are porous, so will build up pockets of bacteria that can’t be cleaned off with boiling or bleaching, simply because they break apart under high temperature or chemicals.

    Short and sweet of it is that by spending a little more to get something that’s worth it, you won’t be putting your health at risk (also treat yourself, because nobody deserves a bad toy)