• sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    2 months ago

    Lot of things can work, its context and often sex position dependent… as well as somewhat kink dependent.

    Say you’re both into a bit of bondage, CNC?

    Wear some clothes that you can actually get stuck in, if only halfway removed, leaving your arms or legs somewhat constricted, or maybe one or both of you is into a shirt or coat or something stuck over your head as an impromptu blindfold.

    The whole… tearing off more clothes as the encounter progresses?

    Yep, big fan of that.

    But also certain clothes can hinder or help with certain positions.

    Heels change the angle of the pelvis, might add enough height to make an unworkable standing position into a workable one.

    Whole lots of possibilities.

  • Caveman@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    Both are very nice. It depends on the vibe. Only a hoodie can be very hot, skirt without panties, summer dress no panties also.

  • iknowitwheniseeit@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 months ago

    My wife always asks me what I like in bed and I keep telling her to keep her boots on. I guess that isn’t the answer she is looking for since she never wears them for sex and keeps asking the same question. 😅

  • Mickey7@lemmy.worldOPM
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    2 months ago

    Sort of like when the GF starts by wearing some sexy negligee but prefer her totally naked when we actually begin to fuck

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    2 months ago

    Both can be fun, naked can feel more intimate, but leaving clothes on can feel more primal like “give it to me now”. Some clothes like sexy lingerie are especially nice to leave on sometimes.

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      2 months ago

      but what would you wear? It’s sort of easy for a guy to just wear a shirt. But for a female the guy is going to want full access to her tits and a shirt just gets in the way

      • Normal clothing?

        I can go through the fly, they can pull their pants down just enough. Or the other way around if they’re topping me. 🤷‍♂️

        It’s just a fuck so passionate/horny you dont even wanna take anything off because it delays the fucking. Full, like, foreplay and whatnot does not even enter my mind lol

  • RepressedLemmier@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 months ago

    I have seen someone wrap panties around someone’s dick while doing outercorse. That is extremely sexy.

    Seeing pants down to the ankles is somehow hotter.