guys unable to verbalize what feels nice and what isn’t working. needing to guess with new dick zaps the joy out for me…
You would definitely get feed back from me. “keep licking the underside of the head”
awesome! I get that it should just be somewhat automated, but confirmation of being on the right track towards satisfying a partner is refreshing to hear and enhances (for me) the act of service.
I understand that some people may not be comfortable vocalizing during, especially with someone new, but it needs to be done. I’m a dude, so how am I going to(for lack of a better phrase) train a new girl up if I just sit there and give no direction?
A painful jaw after 30 minutes?
That’s way too long. If he can’t cum in less than 10 minutes it’s his problem
Or, y’know, you do it in such a way that that gets extended. We’ve had sessions that lasted for hours.
You clearly haven’t experienced bad oral.
My ex had huge loads of exceptionally horrible tasting cum. He was the first guy I’d tried that with so I thought it a universal thing and watching porn where the lady swallows made me want to puke.
But nobody since has been so foul or so heavy.
So for me - fear of the finish makes it unpleasant unless I know the guy has mild taste and not so much.
Hygiene, obviously, and grooming, I don’t like hair down there much.
I think that’s about it. Vertical orientation is better because it’s easier to breathe, if the guy lays flat it’s less enjoyable but I wouldn’t say unenjoyable.
@RBWellsV23 @Mickey7 slight tangent, but I love licking a hairy pussy. Obviously the occupational risk of pubes at the back of my throat is a downside to this pursuit but I do love the textural sensation of her bush rubbing against my face and stubble and the feel of it on my tongue. I also find it aesthetically beautiful