• jontaeus@lemmynsfw.com
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    5 days ago

    guys unable to verbalize what feels nice and what isn’t working. needing to guess with new dick zaps the joy out for me…

    • MyDarkestTimeline01@lemmynsfw.com
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      5 days ago

      I understand that some people may not be comfortable vocalizing during, especially with someone new, but it needs to be done. I’m a dude, so how am I going to(for lack of a better phrase) train a new girl up if I just sit there and give no direction?

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      5 days ago

      You would definitely get feed back from me. “keep licking the underside of the head”

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        5 days ago

        awesome! I get that it should just be somewhat automated, but confirmation of being on the right track towards satisfying a partner is refreshing to hear and enhances (for me) the act of service.