• RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    3 days ago

    My ex had huge loads of exceptionally horrible tasting cum. He was the first guy I’d tried that with so I thought it a universal thing and watching porn where the lady swallows made me want to puke.

    But nobody since has been so foul or so heavy.

    So for me - fear of the finish makes it unpleasant unless I know the guy has mild taste and not so much.

    Hygiene, obviously, and grooming, I don’t like hair down there much.

    I think that’s about it. Vertical orientation is better because it’s easier to breathe, if the guy lays flat it’s less enjoyable but I wouldn’t say unenjoyable.

    • @RBWellsV23 @Mickey7 slight tangent, but I love licking a hairy pussy. Obviously the occupational risk of pubes at the back of my throat is a downside to this pursuit but I do love the textural sensation of her bush rubbing against my face and stubble and the feel of it on my tongue. I also find it aesthetically beautiful

  • jontaeus@lemmynsfw.com
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    3 days ago

    guys unable to verbalize what feels nice and what isn’t working. needing to guess with new dick zaps the joy out for me…

    • MyDarkestTimeline01@lemmynsfw.com
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      3 days ago

      I understand that some people may not be comfortable vocalizing during, especially with someone new, but it needs to be done. I’m a dude, so how am I going to(for lack of a better phrase) train a new girl up if I just sit there and give no direction?

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      3 days ago

      You would definitely get feed back from me. “keep licking the underside of the head”

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        3 days ago

        awesome! I get that it should just be somewhat automated, but confirmation of being on the right track towards satisfying a partner is refreshing to hear and enhances (for me) the act of service.