Is there a link, fetish, idea in ur mind that u really wanna try or explore but you’ve never had a partner to do it with or felt confident telling ur partner about? I’m super curious about this and I’d love to hear them. This is a judgement free zone. My dms are open. I’m a F24 from the UK for reference.
My partner keeps shutting me down every time I open up to her in terms of kinks/fetishes/curiosities, things as mundane as sex toys or pegging are a no, and the handful of times we did them I can tell she did them out of wanting me to quit asking.
I learned not to ask anymore and as you can imagine this is not healthy and has led to some resentment. I don’t share my sexual desires with her anymore just so I can avoid her making me feeling shitty about them.
Sorry, could not resist.
Always been pretty open with my partners. By now even my exes know everything they may not have known entirely while dating.
Have u had anything they’ve said no to?
Just stuff we haven’t had the opportunity yet to explore.
It’s pretty tame, but I’ve never asked a cis woman to peg me before, but I’m curious to try sometime.
Truthfully this is most things for me. My long-term partner is a bit unadventurous whereas I am far more open-minded(outside of hard limits). The times we’ve completely kink inventories together have explicitly highlighted this fact and it’s been a bit disappointing on the kinky front.
I felt like this until I met my wife. Shared everything with her (she did too). She’s even willing to try my kinkiest desires
