Is there a link, fetish, idea in ur mind that u really wanna try or explore but you’ve never had a partner to do it with or felt confident telling ur partner about? I’m super curious about this and I’d love to hear them. This is a judgement free zone. My dms are open. I’m a F24 from the UK for reference.
My partner keeps shutting me down every time I open up to her in terms of kinks/fetishes/curiosities, things as mundane as sex toys or pegging are a no, and the handful of times we did them I can tell she did them out of wanting me to quit asking.
I learned not to ask anymore and as you can imagine this is not healthy and has led to some resentment. I don’t share my sexual desires with her anymore just so I can avoid her making me feeling shitty about them.