MaybeALittleBitWeird

Early 30’s and No, I do not find a random selfie to be sexual in any way.

If you’d like to engage in a sexual conversation, either flirt or present something in a sexual context that opens the door. Expecting to be doted on simply for presenting a selfie comes across as extremely narcissistic and juvenile to me personally. I don’t mean any of this a personal attack on you, just my general views based on the question you’ve asked.

They were nsfw posts. If you have that disabled in your settings then you won’t see them when you check her profile.

That’s definitely also a part of it. On local there’s not enough content if you browse daily to really need to curate a feed honestly. Based on conversations from the instance in the past, most users browse by ‘hot’ or ‘new’. Posting the same image more than 3-4 times is definitely frowned upon and will get you a bad reputation if you do it consistently. Downvotes are coming from users on her home instance and the greater community though.

The greater Lemmy community isn’t particularly nice about NSFW material in general. People will downvote ainplay because they don’t want to see NSFW(even though you can disable it), because you don’t got into their sexual/aesthetic preferences, or for very little real reason at all. Don’t let it get to you

Lemmynsfw has down votes completely disabled so I can’t see the severity of downvotes for your posts, but do yourself a favor and make an account on this instance so you don’t need to worry about it. This change was put in place here for a very good reason.

Truthfully this is most things for me. My long-term partner is a bit unadventurous whereas I am far more open-minded(outside of hard limits). The times we’ve completely kink inventories together have explicitly highlighted this fact and it’s been a bit disappointing on the kinky front.

Allyship is demonstrated through your actions. Your action in posting this(and pretty much every other post of yours) is very far from being an Ally and actually shows you really don’t know a thing about the community or people you claim to respect.

The answer to this question is always, it depends on you but probably no. Like others have said, even at the “top 1%”(there’s so many profiles that these statistics don’t mean much) you’re not making a whole lot more than just some passive beer money. It’s an insane grind of marketing yourself to even get to that point and if you slow down even a little your progress will disappear very quickly.

You also need to take into account that the internet is forever. Even if you delete your profile and pictures, they still exist. If for example you want to transition to a different career that is not friendly to NSFW backgrounds, like a teacher, you’re placing yourself in a very precarious position. Weigh your options to determine if this is something that’s okay for you.

Nope. Block away. Blocking just stops the community from showing up in your feed or you being able to see it in searches. If it’s got absolutely nothing of interest to you, it’s the best thing you can do.

Yup! If they pull out and cum on my back or something it just feels so disappointing 😭

For my partner, I prefer the tried and true deep inside them, whatever orifice - it doesn’t matter.

For myself, unless they cum inside me, I want to be able to see them cumming on me or it’s not satisfying. I prefer in my mouth though.

I didn’t mean that in the sense that you shouldn’t consider yourself a romantic at all! I simply meant that I think in this case, your sentiments are actually shared by the greater community at large.

To be honest, I don’t think you’ve really got to think so much about it. You’ve got an amazing figure and a good head for posing and lighting already. As long as you’re having fun taking the pictures it will come through in the final product. If you really enjoy lingerie, costumes, or any other specific kink in terms of clothing/accesories then incorporate that, but only if you enjoy it.

As another commenter said, leaving things implied and up to the imagination will likely have a more positive outcome than something explicit. For example, a tasteful picture of your thighs crossed taken at an upwards angle looking at your torso so that you can just get a glimpse of your pussy sounds more appealing than a messy shot of your pussy while using a dildo.

You’re not selling anything(at least I think) monetarily, but you are selling the fantasy of yourself when you post. So I will still say, just allow who the LittleRedDev is to come through in your photos and you’ll find success.

I’m a bit of a romantic

I don’t even think this is really being romantic and you bring up a good point. Taking a good photo should allow the viewer to have their imagination go wild and to do that you need to leave quite a bit to be implied.

I’d wager the vast majority of people browsing here aren’t furiously masturbating and are instead just feeling lightly amorous or turned on and the content that does well reflects that.

You can find out the answer far quicker and far easier if you instead just go over to c/asshole

Rather than saying some very disparaging things about you and your “evil mind,” I’m going to hold my tongue. Instead I’m just going to ask you, do you think it’s possible to take a picture of your own asshole without having most of your taint in clear view?

How is that mentally fucked up? Do you also consider a woman taking pics of her pussy fucked up as well?

A few days ago to send some pics 😅

Like RBWells says, there will always be more submissive men than there will ever be willing and compatible doms. Combine that with the fact that Feminization/sissy kinks have a tendency to attract people who are internally conflicted, uncomfortable with their sexuality, and prone to both flaking and purging makes it tough to explore in earnest in a legitimate and safe manner until you’ve fully come to terms with some of these things.

Most legitimate doms can sense these things so most of your interest is going to come from chasers and pro-dommes looking to take advantage of you. Is your only kink that you’re looking to explore feminization? Because if that’s the case, then a lot of the times your ads will also sound like you’re just looking for a kink dispenser relationship, which is a very one-sided and selfish relationship for a dom to be in. Keep in mind that all relationships have a give and take to them.

Only maybe about three weeks for me. I don’t care about any of the weird challenges teenagers do, but it was mostly for mental health reasons and to aid in achieving some other personal goals. Despite the constant commenting, I usually only masturbate about once per week on average though.

This is a text only community, which is why you’re not allowed to post pics. Your post also isn’t a question(Which is rule 1) and should probably be posted someplace else.

You can try !chat@lemmynsfw.com or any of the personals communities if you narrow down what you’re looking for.