• ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 month ago

    Good question, they don’t have a prostate to stimulate.

    But a lot of people have fetishes that aren’t physically pleasurable. I imagine it’s just one of those?

    Would be interesting to hear about it from a girl though. I always wonder about their perspective and this is an interesting one.

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        1 month ago

        Oh yeah I looked it up and you’re right! Very close indeed.

        I really need a sexual partner that is very open about what feels good to her, most I have been with are just like “yeah this is good just keep doing it”.

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      1 month ago

      Hopefully hitting the prostate isn’t the only good feeling one gets from anal. The lack of a prostate doesn’t mean the rest of it feels bad.

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        1 month ago

        True, it doesn’t really do anything for me that’s why I didn’t think of it, but I can imagine for some people it does.

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      1 month ago

      Yep would be better to hear an answer from girl on this. With my GF, I can’t confirm, but I think it was a topic of discussion among her friends because one of them was retelling her experience of getting ass fucked. That led onto all of them wanting to try. They could then get together and discuss their experiences with it

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        23 days ago

        Well, to me being ass fucked is part of the bdsm degradee fetish. I like the way I might be “dishonored” on the mental side moreover because anal needs training so it kinda feels like serving my man. Also because it might not be conventionnal sex it’s somehow crossing over the forbiden line

        On the physical part anal feels good to me if I’m reeeeally hot, like in the vagina alone just won’t do it enough. I assume my inside clitoris is near to the anus’ entrance cause I love the penetration but not necesseraly having it all the way through

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    1 month ago

    There are many females that enjoy the feeling of being ‘full’ and sometimes this will hit some of those nerves that dont get hit normally. A bunch of the chicas I have been with that felt this way also were like “hey are you down for me to get a toy out and plug one you get the other”

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    1 month ago

    A few times I had been doing my GF doggy and she asked me to put it in her ass instead. Never could determine what was her motivation

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    1 month ago

    I don’t think sexual desires are “for a reason”. Usually, when we want something, or some position, it is not after calmly comparing the pros and cons with other possibilities ; but a less or more burning desire of the thing for itself.

    Also, some people have kinks you would prefer never try, no matter how good they may feel for those who like them. Based on that, you may accept that some people may love to receive it analy, while some others prefer never try.

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      1 month ago

      Usually, when we want something, or some position, it is not after calmly comparing the pros and cons with other possibilities

      And yet, many of our preferences and kinks do have reasons in our past that can be discovered, and which can grant understanding of oneself

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    1 month ago

    Probably the best way to think about it is why sometimes you’ll choose chinese, or mexican, or french, or italian food. All of them, if done well, taste delicious. Sometimes you’ll just prefer one over the others.

    I can’t remember if it was here or reddit, but there’s a pretty common agreement that girth is good, but the real ‘feeling’ that’s sought after is by anal plug. Something like, if vaginal penetration is 7/10, anal is 5/10, then vaginal with the anal being filled is 9/10.