• 🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    Great now “boys will be boys” is a dog whistle.

    it always was for misogyny, but now it might be for fascism too

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      1 month ago

      I think it was more of a euphemism for stupidity than a dog whistle for mysogyny.

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        1 month ago

        it’s often used to excuse male children or teens (or young men) of misogynistic acts.

        although originally meant for general youth stupidity.

        it’s a good dogwhistle because it comes with plausible deniability.

        it depends on the context.

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      1 month ago

      “Boys will be boys” was always about getting into foolish hijinks. It has been co-opted by shitheads to excuse abhorrent behavior. And every time it happens there needs to be significant pushback from from folks to take it back from the bastards.

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        1 month ago

        sadly it’s hard to take back a term.

        shitheads missuse the term

        normal people then avoid such term

        now it’s a bad term

        any attempt at reclaiming it will be suspicious as if someone just wants an excuse to use that word.

        it’s mostly a slut thing.

        but with slurs it’s “easier” to reclaim, as the community affected by it, can choose to use it.

        in this case it’s different.