What was the first kink you tried and how did it shape your future sexual preferences?

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  • Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    1 month ago

    I got into electric play early on. Started with a violet wand and then TENS. Because it’s kind of niche, I found myself with a full dance card on most weekends and eventually went on to produce videos. In my local scene I became the guy you to go for this sort of play or advice. I’ve also been on stage numerous times at various events. This was all pre-COVID.

    I wouldn’t say it shaped my sexual preferences so much as it shaped my path in the BDSM community. Those were the best years of my life and I’m so glad I let my curiosities get the best of me so many years ago.