Yes I have talked to some of my regular girls about it. Interestingly they all cited the feeling of enjoying someone else enjoy what you do and your body as the main fun part of the job. They don’t get off or actually feel horny or satisfied or whatever usually. But the satisfaction of making someone feel all kinds of sexy things is enjoyable.

I for one can not only separate love and sex pretty well. I find I can also separate mutual sex and sex as a service. Mutual sex is all about the shared experience Imo. About enjoying each other and seeing someone else be horny and make them enjoy you. But paid sex is about me. She will do what I enjoy to make me feel as much pleasure as possible. In that it’s a lot more like mastubation in a sense. When I jerk off I only care about what I enjoy.

One thing is I don’t like mouth to mouth kisses when being with a prostitute. It just doesn’t feel right for me. Body kisses and enjoying her body with my mouth is great however.

Sometimes when horny and while having sex I can have fantasies about her loving it. In the moment it doesn’t really matter to me at that point. And afterwards I of course know that isn’t the case. But some suspension of disbelief is nice at times.

Also with some of the ladies I get along really well in a regular customer kind of way. Like when you go to the same pub for 3 years you’ll get to know even the most professional barkeep a bit. And some even more.

I hope you can make some sense of this. If not let me know and I’ll try to clarify.