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Cake day: May 10th, 2026

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    • entering my flat multiple times without my consent/knowledge and not leaving when asked to (thanks for the 3h meltdown where I was completly locked inside my brain and couldnt do anything but repeat a few words over and over and rock back and forth on the couch, really liked that one)

    • ignoring obvious signs of mental/neurological issues in their child (because somehow children cant have those??)

    • treating our relationship as something transactional

    • forcing me to do activities i really dont want to, trying to argue away my fears and thinking they “won” after i shut up

    I might talk to them again if they write a letter apologizing for atleast something. I havent told them this and i realise that its kind of unfair to set a condition that the other party doesnt know about, but if they dont come to this conclusion themselves then it doesnt feel genuine to me. It really sucks because I have no other people to rely on (emotional and material) but it also kind of was like that before I stopped talking to them, because every favour needs to be repaid or might be used in an argument against me and every fear and concern is argued away.

    edit: oh and i realise that some of this is my fault because i really am sometimes difficult to deal with and very stubborn and i try to take responsibility, but at the same time it often feels like I have to work with both of my hands tied behind my back and I wasnt given the tools as a child to do better.










  • Im not saying OOP is wrong but from translating the pictures I cannot come to the same conclusions. Its more like the textbook is badly worded generalizes way too much so you can interpret it in many different ways.

    First excerpt probably should have said: “Different people are born with different (Dis)abilities, but this doesnt make one person better than the other because…” Second one: “You are not completely helpless and not entirely a victim of circumstances. To improve you need the means and the motivation.” Third one:“Teachers should not teach their own opinion, but what the government/Society thinks. The Government/Society can be wrong about things though.(insert historical examples or whatever)” 4th one"In an ideal society girls shouldnt have to be careful, but this society isnt ideal so heres some pragmatic advice…"

    Im not saying my suggestions are the best either just how I think the excerpts are meant to be read and how they could be improved.