We’ll join in on the chorus, this is a very much average size. Porn fucks us up much more than we’d all like, and skews expectations. However, in reality, really big dicks can hurt a lot, and only a fraction of people are actually wanting that. No matter your size (and we mean it), what’s important is how you care for a partner, using your entire body to please theirs. Sex is a wonderfully thing, and it’s about the mental and physically connections you build. Wanting the other to get the most pleasure is actually what often gets you the most in return :)

Edited to add : if you want to boost your confidence somewhat, two things that can make your dick look a bit bigger is losing weight, and trimming/shaving the pubic har at the basis of the shaft

I love when she plays with it while sucking, wether it be light strokes or even licking it to. But I prefer when her hand adventures even farther towards my perineum and anus

Oops, autocorrect revealing more than we’d like… I’ll edit

As FistingEnthusiast said, it’s relatively fine, because your rectum is the final part of the digestive tract, and as such it is a lot more used to varying microorganisms population and quantities. However, a quick wash or condom change is NEVER a bad idea !

Do you think it we could post there something we already posted, with the purpose of having it drawn ? Or would a repost be frowned upon ?

We were curious about sex things in general, and sharing murder was one of them. We enjoyed the feedback of it, it is kind of a self esteem boost. Of course, we also like the excitement of anyone being able to see us. It did not significantly change our lives though, as we were already taking pictures and recordings for our private use. But we like it and we’ll keep doing it as long as it’s fun to us !

Ass to pussy is very much a no go, you should either put a condom and change/remove it when you change hole, or wash thoroughly. It’s important to understand that the microorganisms in the rectum are VERY different from those inside the vagina, and can totally upset the equilibrium inside.

For toys, we would recommend getting a womanizer (or other brand equivalent). Almost every woman we talk sex with is in agreement that it’s a very unique, incredible feeling, and we use it very often in our sex sessions as a couple.

As other have said, an assortment of buttplugs is a good thing, being able to go up in size as the play ramps up, and it works for anyone any gender.

We also recommend something like the “HER ultimate pleasure”, meaning a toy with a suction cup for the vulva, and a moving tongue-like part. There are similar ones for other brands, we can vouch for the effectiveness of this particular one.

And finally, if you’re into it, some restraints are always good, you can start very simple with 2 cuff pairs, and add some bed restraints, or even spreader bars.

We hope this helps and you have a wonderful time together!

We’re enjoying being part of a rather small community, but we love seeing some names appear regularly in the comments of our posts. And even if we don’t interact, we like reading posts like this one, they can be really interesting and/or insightful

Hi, we had some experiences with sex board games, however we often found them limited, as you can only discover the finite amount of cards once. However, we found our satisfaction in electronic based ones, as they often allow much more personalisation and randomness. We used loveretto.com a lot, then switched to jeu.sexy-city.fr/?lang=en as we found it more costumisable. We also sometimes use theforeplaygame.com though a bit less often. Finally, we recently discovered domination-dares.com and we’ll probably test it sometime soon.

We hope this helps you, but as the others say, you need to discuss and communicate with your partners to understand each other’s expectations and boundaries. We often think we know, but never ask often enough

Love to see the hair down there on most of them, makes it hard to choose!

Hi, we kind of do this with my wife, most often we’ll post to the main gonewild community, as well as couplesgonewild, and sometimes repost to another more thematic one if there’s a good reason (like bdsmgonewild if the pic is appropriate) Anyway, I hope you have a good time here!

I LOVE getting attention everywhere during oral, tip, shaft, balls, and anus too. Fortunately my wife knows it too :)

Best would when I was long distance with the wife, we’d sext all day long, then play with connected toys in the evening to release it all, fantastic.

Worst would be receiving a notification with the beginning of a somewhat detailed sext while showing a video to my grandma

I have one, it was the video with which I discovered my anal piss fetish. It was an amateur couple, speaking French, probably Canadian French given the accent. They fucked really rough but with so much passion and love in every move, it was an amazing vibe. I never found this video again, and it was before pornhub purged most amateur content so basically no hope…

Travelling recently, so we experimented long distance sex with the wife using connected toys, really cool discovery!

Obligatory “not a woman”, but speaking for my wife, it apparently doesn’t change very much, as in so little that when she’s near ovulation she sometimes notices only during the act that I put one on

Well specifically this one, made my wife “sing” :)

https://www.satisfyer.com/fr/satisfyer-pro-2-generation-2

Trying some new toys with the wife, she finally was able to have the womanizer (like) experience and holy fuck she liked it very much, I think this thing won’t be clean too often :)

Recently been into an exhibition fetish, purely as a fantasy, because neither me nor the wife would be comfortable doing anything remotely close, but reading and seeing people’s content about it gets me going like nothing lately