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Cake day: August 13th, 2023

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  • In defense of this, there are situations where it’s good advice. Bullies that only use insults and social pressure are easily dealt with this way. Find a friend group with no connection to them, then ignore them to get rid of anything they can use against you. This is basically how I dealt with the people bullying me at school.

    But I agree, if they do anything beyond insults and social pressure, you need some way of confronting them or leaving them entirely.



  • A. Please tell me exactly where I said Biden was anything more than a mildly less shit alternative to Trump. And please tell me where I was saying support the genocide, rather than support one of the people who supports the genocide.

    B. I have not been talking about what Biden should have done. I have only been talking about what voters should have done.


  • A. I hate to do this, but

    The audience I wish to reach doesn’t need their hand held as a child

    Strawman, saying that this is about “leading people like they’re children” not “clear and effective communication as equals”

    B. What I’m talking about is proactively sharing your views, both to save time on questioning and to fill gaps that others would have never thought to ask about. Please, tell me why this isn’t a needed part of discussion.


  • The point of teaching is sharing knowledge, not just poking holes in whatever argument you can (intentional hyperbole, not strawman)

    The point of learning fallacies isn’t so that you can just name them and feel like you’ve made a point.

    strawman

    Instead of just “strawman, therefore you’re wrong” and leaving it at that, how about you explain what was incorrect in that statement. That way you become more understood, and everyone understands you more.

    This isn’t a courtroom debate. This isn’t a debate you “win” or “lose”. This is a debate where everyone should be trying to understand each other, so that everyone ends up better off by the end. This sort of debate is a cooperative thing, not competitive.


  • That’s the question I answered.

    Which would you rather support?

    • Genocide
    • Genocide + fascism + other bad shit (probably including genocide 2)

    Pick one or give an alternative and a good reason that it will have some effect.

    The lesser evil in this situation is genocide without all the other shit, and supporting that is therefore damage control


  • then the burden is on you to figure out how to stop getting played. Don’t ask other people to solve your problems

    Sorry, but how the fuck did you get to that opinion? Sharing knowledge and ideas is how humanity thrives, but unless I’m misunderstanding you you’re saying that we should each individually find a solution to the problem we are all in together.

    the spoiler effect doesn’t exist unless you’re in a swing state

    The spoiler effect will always exist to some extent in any FPTP system. Sure, it won’t make nearly as much difference in a one sided state as it will in a swing state, but the effect still exists, and makes it much harder for a better party to gain traction while not losing a lot of ground in the mean time.

    how many Americans were told that they have to vote for Harris or they’re supporting Trump

    The people that didn’t believe this and so didn’t vote are probably the reason that Trump won the popular vote, and that the republicans have a majority in the senate and the house.

    you’re suggesting that leftists are idealist, but that’s not the truth

    Acting like “voting for the lesser evil is evil and therefore unacceptable” seems pretty idealist to me. I’m well aware that most people here are aware of how shit the world is, and are doing their part to improve it, which is something I appreciate and want to support. It’s just that from what I can tell, the recent US election was the wrong place for idealism.

    we’re trying to make a better one, but you’re not

    Sorry, mate, but don’t assume. I’m not american, I’m kiwi. And since we don’t have a completely shit voting system, I always vote as a huge idealist and never vote for one of the big two, because in MMP that’s not a wasted vote.

    your cynicism has caused you to throw in the towel, and to accept the current reality as permanent, unchangeable

    No. I’ve just accepted that, at least for this cycle of US elections, the better approach would be playing defensive. It’s not that the current reality is unchangeable, it’s that positive change will be very slow.




  • not many ask

    Yes, they do ask a lot, at least a far as I’ve seen. I still haven’t seen a good alternative to voting for the lesser evil in a FPTP system.

    They believe they already know what others think

    My opinion on that was based on the whole “don’t vote for Harris, she’ll support genocide” thing I saw earlier this year. If I’m wrong about that, or anything else, I’m more than happy to be corrected.

    no one could possibly have an alternative that they’ve not already considered

    Most people don’t think that no one could have a good alternative, they just don’t know of anyone who does.

    your scope of evaluation is only one cycle

    You’re assuming that’s my only scope. Both the short term and the long term are important, but from what I’ve seen the short term tends to get ignored in this sort of community.



  • As good as that video is, he ignores the strength elections have as damage control. Yes, large positive change needs the sort of efforts he’s describing, but ignoring voting means a bad government will have far more opportunity to undo progress.

    Really, the biggest takeaway from that video is that there are more tools than simply voting and protesting, which I don’t think anyone is disagreeing with.


  • OK, what else do you suggest? Not voting? That just speeds the process up. Voting for the small but much better option? In a FPTP voting system (like the American one that I assume you’re talking about), the spoiler effect means that’s as good as not voting.

    This is my issue with the leftist community in general, and especially the ml group. Because of idealism, they seem to ask for something that doesn’t exist and not accept anything else.