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Cake day: August 29th, 2025

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  • I can’t say for certain that person’s intent, but i didn’t read it that way. My early childhood was dependent on the kindness of people who didn’t have to care, and when my parents were able, they did the same for others. While it is without a doubt that Trump is making the issue worse, their comment is completely accurate, it didn’t start with him. I will say that a stat from 2023 does not go back to the root of the problem. In many states and municipalities, the machine has been dismantling assistance programs for decades. The most visible and egregious was, of course, Reagan’s racist “welfare queen” rhetoric, along with the “war on drugs,” dehumanizing and criminalizing poverty and melanin. It is absolutely maddening that this discourse and policy decisions are now being attributed to a dipshit who is intellectually incapable of hiding his intent when we’ve been yelling until our lungs collapse that this was the intent all along.




  • I had a similar situation about a year ago, but it was reversed. I was having breakfast alone while waiting for an oil change. They had sat me at a large table (6 seats), and this gal walked up and asked, “Do you need this chair?” I responded “No, please!” Thinking she would leave with it. She plopped down and chatted nonstop. I honestly found her and her conversation a bit odd, so when I finished my food, I gave a quick goodbye and paid at the counter instead of waiting for the check as I was ready to leave. I can imagine that a woman may have been put off even more by a man in that situation. Though, you did at least directly ask to sit, unlike the woman I met.