EmptyAsparagus

nobody knows you as well as you do, so its uber important to be nice to yourself. you’re the only one that can accept you the way you are completely. take it from someone, that was mean to themselves most of their life. its so much easier when you’re at least as nice to yourself as you are to others. would you think lesser of a person because of their looks?

praise

they might be honest, but their mostly not factual and also dicks. you can be nice while critiquing

have you heard of a “joke”?

don’t really know what happening, people getting vibes and then telling you your not open to critique? “I feel like youre obsessed” is not critique, its a vibe.

I think is was more a catalyst.

please research autism. its a spectrum and it takes a ton of different forms. it might actually help you understand why you work the way you do. saw that happen with a lot of people and late in life ADHD diagnosis, they were immideatly better, because they could put a label on the pain points. its also way easier to seek out information and connect with others if you know what is happening in your head.

I am not trying to be snarky. you seem to interpret my words in the worst way possible. it was just a statement, that it adds nothing. my comment was somewhat meta, since it didn’t comment contributing to the OP. but that is not meant sknarkily and I also dont want to dismiss your opinion, I just think that you should comment on asklemmy if there is additional value.

and also, I am a random on the internet, I dont know how others see it.

huh? you left a comment without input. you’re literally saying you dont have input.

you do realize, that it wasn’t you specifically being asked? this is not an answer to the posed question.

and thats all everyone should do. working on it and keeping it in mind. I think we (also me until some years ago) consume mindlessly.

the pointless things are the most fun. also, there are things like consistency, you can have magic with boundaries for example, the rules dont have to be real to be discussed. but if its not your cup of tea who cares :D

I am vegan, because I want to minimize animal suffering. if insects have the ability to suffer is highly debated. honestly I think they could just be different enough for us to not recognize their intelligence, like we do/did with fish. I will eat honey when offered, but would not buy my own. tldr: I wouldnt reject it. but I would also not but it myself.