We usually go back to doing whatever we were doing prior, usually playing a game of some kind, or snuggle and pass out.

I thought it was an amazing joke.

Generally speaking if one finds sex boring with their partner, it is likely the partner feels the same way.

Talk to her about what you want in bed, about what she wants in bed, and if it is possible for you to be compatible in those ways.

The thing about the human experience is it is usually “Normal” as in you aren’t ever the only person thinking/feeling a certain way. The best solution is always communication, just as a general life tip as well as an NSFW tip.