When compared to Reddit’s NSFW content & based on our community’s desire ?

Personally:- I’d like a community where we could just hit each other up & hook up for some bang-bang with no strings attached.

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    10 days ago

    Why does bdsm have to have a gender or sexual orientation? Why can’t it just be about 1 human loving to beat the hell out of another human, and that other human loving being beaten?

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      9 days ago

      Not to diminish the fact that BDSM is queer in general, I think it’s possible to erase communities through ignorance. Everyone defaults to cis-het white, generally maledom stuff, which makes a lot of people lose interest. You can say you’re gender-blind, but I’ve only seen cis-looking women as the focus on that board, and I don’t find that terribly stimulating.