I’m a guy, 40, been regularly visiting brothels, seeing escorts and going to FKK clubs here in Germany since I turned 30.
Born in the US, I moved to Germany at 8 years old with my parents.
I’ve been mostly working hard, not having had any longterm relationships really, I decided to try paying for sex ten years ago and stuck with it.
Here in Germany prostitution is completely legal by law.
Ask me anything, no matter how private, horny, explicit or confrontational.
Purely sexual fantasies as in practices I wanted to try but haven’t? Or constellations I wanted to try but haven’t? No. I have done everything I have felt the urge to try during the past years.
One of the first things I tried was a threesome and I still have them regularly. But I also tried 3, 4, 5 and up to 6 girls on my for one night full of pure fucking and sensorial overload. It was a very fun experience and them all being paid absolutely takes performance anxiety out of the equation for me. But I would not repeat it. I was also younger and fitter then. I did take a performance pill for that one later though because I wanted to cum with each girl at least once.
I tried a FMM threesome with a buddy and that was alright but not my jam. I did a lot of FFMM dates with said buddy or even with three to four girls plus the two of us dudes, and those are always great fun. He has a ridiculously huge dick which makes the dynamic kind of funny sometimes tbh. Mine isn’t tiny but maybe slightly above average. The girls will joke about it all the time like when we switch a girl from him to me or vice versa, they might say “Ah, finally a break from THAT thing.” or “I guess this was just the tutorial level.” which I think is hella funny and cute. And before anyone says I am jealous or a cuck or whatever: he doesn’t get anal or some other positions with that thing so if anyone is jealous regularly it is him. JK. We just both think the whole vibe is hilarious which is why we try to meet at least 3 times a year to screw around the brothels here even though he moved several hours away now.
I got sidetracked. So I did try bondage and BDSM practices on submissive girls who offer these services. I urinated on a girl which I was wondering if I’d like it and it was surprisingly hot but not really a kink for me I’d end up repeating.
I tried all kinds of public and private roleplay and still do occasionally. Especially roleplay in public can be a ton of fun. Scenarios like where I flirt, make out with and pick up a girl or two girls in public. The reactions of some people are just fun to experience. I once had a random woman join me and an escort after I “picked up” the escort at a bar and we ended up with a threesome which was a nice twist.
Another bucket list item is I had sex with one of my favorite pornstars for money and it was surreal and crazy satisfying experience. She’s from the czech republic and was in Germany for an erotic convention called “Venus” in Berlin. I offered a few grand of money to a few actresses I enjoyed watching whom I have met. One of them said yes and we ended up at my hotel room. In the end it was not better or worse than a really good night with a prostitute but just her being a pornstar I jerked it to a lot before put her on a pedestal that was absolutely making this so ridiculously hot for me.
I’ve had semi-public sex in front of other Johns and workers in the public areas of FKK clubs. People watching can be a nice kick for me I found so sometimes I’ll have a fuck at the porn cinema or in the bar area if a girl is cool with that.
I’ve had all sorts of nuru and oil and body to body and prostate massages which are all absolutely great. I do those semi regularly as well, like one every few months or so.
Other than that I tried pretty much all fetishes which interested me like feet, pain, slaves, bondage in different ways and so on, had sex with pretty much all ethnicities and body types, tried tons of toys on girls and had them use them on me. Getting absolutely annihalated by a fleshlight during a long BDSM edging session while being died up was a very memorable experience as well. I should probably repeat that.
I probably could go on and on and I kind of enjoy sharing these a bit too much but reminiscing can be fun too. However these are the standouts for me. There has been a lot of crazy stuff.