I’m a guy, 40, been regularly visiting brothels, seeing escorts and going to FKK clubs here in Germany since I turned 30.
Born in the US, I moved to Germany at 8 years old with my parents.
I’ve been mostly working hard, not having had any longterm relationships really, I decided to try paying for sex ten years ago and stuck with it.
Here in Germany prostitution is completely legal by law.
Ask me anything, no matter how private, horny, explicit or confrontational.
At the brothels you go to, are Visa/Mastercard/Amex accepted?
Many if not most do. Even many independent girls have a card payment machine for credit card or EC (which is also very common here in Germany). But I mostly pay cash except for the more expensive dates, which the girls prefer because it lets them skirt taxes I guess.
Thanks for answering these questions, I appreciate you doing this. Have you noticed a lot of drug abuse (like there seems to be in the sex industry as a whole)?
It’s a hobby I don’t get to talk about a lot so I find it freeing to finally be able to share some experiences.
I’m also happy it’s interesting to you.
I haven’t noticed much if at all. That might be because some hide it well and maybe because I avoid the more shady and less pleasant places. And I also never see streetworkers. I mostly see independent girls and go to higher class clubs and brothels.
There it is uni students and girls with bad job perspectives like it they skipped school too much, that’s it mostly if they are German. Or girls from Eastern Europe where I don’t know exactly what their deal is. Probably support family at home idk. But no obvious drug issues.
This has certainly been educational! Thanks again for the AMA. Perhaps I’ll be able to give it a go someday; Germany is one of the places I’d like to visit.
Glad you learned something new.
If you are ever in the Hamburg area feel free to message me. I can give you some pointers. The most famous redlight places here are all tourist traps. So beware.
Duly noted, thanks!