I’m a guy, 40, been regularly visiting brothels, seeing escorts and going to FKK clubs here in Germany since I turned 30.
Born in the US, I moved to Germany at 8 years old with my parents.
I’ve been mostly working hard, not having had any longterm relationships really, I decided to try paying for sex ten years ago and stuck with it.
Here in Germany prostitution is completely legal by law.
Ask me anything, no matter how private, horny, explicit or confrontational.
With my regular girls there is some routine to the whole business now. Some I’ve been seeing for years on the regular. On the plus side they know what I enjoy really well. And having great Sex with stunning chicks never really gets old I guess.
When seeing new ladies I am still super nervous and excited each time. There is something special about meeting a hot woman for the first time, seeing her baked or in underwear immediately. Knowing after a tiny bit it small talk she’ll be all over you in the best way possible. Still makes me all giddy to this day.
I have had a few experiences which weren’t enjoyable for different reasons. Some women don’t really offer good service, sometimes chemistry isnt there, sometimes there is a misunderstanding in what was agreed upon.
In those cases you either try to enjoy what you get or you cancel and accept there is no money back. That’s why I usually book a short date when seeing a new girl. Half and hour, suck and fuck, no extra service. It’s usually 100 bucks around here for that getting to know each other sex date. And if that’s wasted then so be it. I don’t use money for paysex that I can’t afford to lose.
If you want examples of how things didn’t pan out I can give you one or two. But overall the pleasant experiences have been way more plentyful than the bad ones.