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Due@lemmynsfw.com to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.comEnglish ·
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What would you do if you found out that your mother or sister was a sex worker?

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What would you do if you found out that your mother or sister was a sex worker?

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  • bobbygraves@lemmynsfw.com
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    19 days ago

    Make sure they were doing it safely and ask if they want tech support.

    • olivertwister@lemmynsfw.com
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      Idk, if you give tech support you would likely see more of your mom than you wanted. Unless they have questions I can answer without looking at their website or whatever.

      • Whostosay@sh.itjust.works
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        19 days ago

        Perks of the job

  • deezcashews@lemmynsfw.com
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    19 days ago

    Wait for them to get stuck in the washing machine

    • ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com
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      19 days ago

      Doesn’t that only work if you’re her STEPbro?

      • deezcashews@lemmynsfw.com
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        19 days ago

        Not if you’re below the mason Dixon line

        • CoffeeJunkie@lemmy.cafe
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          18 days ago

          Roll Tide

  • ℛ𝒶𝓋ℯ𝓃@pawb.social
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    19 days ago

    Ask where they’re working so I don’t end up on the same shift

  • K.K. ❤️@lemmynsfw.com
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    19 days ago

    Make sure to avoid it at all costs but support them otherwise.

  • RepressedLemmier@lemmynsfw.com
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    19 days ago

    Go “of course” and be even less happy. Avoid eating from the same plate. Wonder if it could have been avoided if I worked harder.

    • al_Kaholic@lemmynsfw.com
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      19 days ago

      Why are you eating from the same plate anyway, start being a man buy your own plate. Maybe then you would be happy. Worked harder at what education, reading, empathy? Maybe open your mind and open your heart.

      • RepressedLemmier@lemmynsfw.com
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        I would just wonder if I could have squeezed in another job or gotten a better one.

        I’m fairly sure the answer is no. I got incredibly lucky.

        • RIPandTERROR@sh.itjust.works
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          “repressed lemmier”

  • borf@lemmynsfw.com
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    19 days ago

    I would immediately post to as many Lemmy communities as possible asking what other people would do

    • Due@lemmynsfw.comOP
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      19 days ago

      Then what?

      • RedditRefugee69@lemmynsfw.com
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        Then if anyone called me out, I would answer them with an aloof response so as not to give up that I’d been found out. For example, I could reply, “Then what?”

        • Due@lemmynsfw.comOP
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          Then what?

          • Mycatiskai@lemmy.ca
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            Then I would continue with the “Dude Where’s my car?”-like references by replying “And then?”

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        deleted by creator

  • ILikeBigTitsAndICannotLie@lemmynsfw.com
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    If that’s what they want to do then be cool with it.

    If I found out I’d probably not bring it up. If they want to tell me I’m fine to talk about it. As I am self employed as well I might even be able to help them with taxes and whatever. Sex work is all legal here but that of course means taxes haha.

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    Mother? Be very surprised because she is dead.

    Sister? She was a nude dancer when we were younger so maybe be less surprised, but she is pretty conservative now (not politically but in lifestyle) so would still be a surprise. Wouldn’t do anything, it’s her life, right?

  • Sagan_Wept@lemmynsfw.com
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    Support them because they are independent people with sexual autonomy and sex work is real work. If you having an issue with that, you need therapy.

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    I would be a LOT more careful about the communities I follow around here, lol. Need some heavy duty eye bleach if I stumble across the wrong thing

    Beyond that, it literally affects my life in no way whatsoever. More power to her/them.

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    18 days ago

    keep my mouth shut

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    19 days ago

    I suspect this is what OP was fishing for

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    “You couldn’t get a job at McDonald’s? Cleaning toilets? At least they’re actual jobs, no shame in it! I guess you don’t believe in God and His expectations of us now? What happened?!”

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      God is cool with selling daughters into slavery, he doesn’t get to judge sex workers.

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        How certain are you of the validity of these statements, regardless of where you read them?

        • SkyezOpen@lemmy.world
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          Is the Bible not the word of God?

  • Landless2029@lemmy.world
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    Probably talk to them about online safety and anti doxxing measures.

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    send a few bucks her way on patreon or koffee or whatever, because she needs it and I can spare the cash.

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