Besides the porn industry selling the “money shot”, how much of a real thing is cum play for the average person?
As a sperm producer, when I masturbate and I know I’ll be getting under shower next, I play around a bit and make a mess of myself but, again, I know I’m getting a shower next.
With my partner, we’ve played and have had a lot of fun, but unless showering is up next (or already happening) it is very down in the lust list.
Personally speaking, facials don’t really do much for me. Not really sexy having the other person squinting and afraid of getting a rope up a nostril or in the eye. I like having eye contact; speaks volumes when speech centers are reduced to minimal services.
On the other hand, I do enjoy the visuals and emotions that come with seeing my sperm oozing out of my partner and/or on her skin. It has a sort of primal appeal to it.
So, how much of a porn staple vs real life of a thing are facials and cum play in general?
I always thought of it as a way of degrading a woman. And that’s no fun for her or the guy if the guy isn’t an asshole
Oh no, I’ve always thought of it as being very intimate and sexy, if in a primal way.
I think its only degrading if she’s not in to it. If she’s in to it, it can be fun and sexy.
@pinkpint @Mickey7 I’ve known a number of women who have loved it, some because it is degrading and sexy, some just because it’s a turn on to see a man’s cock so close as he masturbates or is stimulated until he’s throbbing and blows all over her. Degradation is not always a bad thing, if it happens in the right circumstances
That’s fair, the important thing is that its consensual.
@pinkpint absolutely. Consent is critical, and communication is sexy. My best experience was when a girl came at the same time as I blew in her face (not spontaneous, she was rubbing herself silly as she sucked me). That, was dynamite 🥵
That would be an amazing experience.