Besides the porn industry selling the “money shot”, how much of a real thing is cum play for the average person?
As a sperm producer, when I masturbate and I know I’ll be getting under shower next, I play around a bit and make a mess of myself but, again, I know I’m getting a shower next.
With my partner, we’ve played and have had a lot of fun, but unless showering is up next (or already happening) it is very down in the lust list.
Personally speaking, facials don’t really do much for me. Not really sexy having the other person squinting and afraid of getting a rope up a nostril or in the eye. I like having eye contact; speaks volumes when speech centers are reduced to minimal services.
On the other hand, I do enjoy the visuals and emotions that come with seeing my sperm oozing out of my partner and/or on her skin. It has a sort of primal appeal to it.
So, how much of a porn staple vs real life of a thing are facials and cum play in general?
I’ve always been someone to cum really big amounts. When going solo it can be quite annoying at times. As a teen when the guys told me they use a think paper towel to catch it or clean up I was like how the fk is that helping anything.
I only learned when I was with my second girlfriend who had some comparisons, that my loads where huge. She thought it was a bit gross. So I thought women wouldn’t appreciate it. Well we were pretty young still.
Every woman I was with after that enjoyed playing with cum a bit or getting it on herself. And I enjoy coming on certain parts of the body, but also inside or both. Face can get a bit messy as it’s hard to not hit the hair which is a mess to clean apparently.
But yes from my experience it is quite common to enjoy at least a little cum play. However often I have to ask or bring it up first.