• JRaccoon@discuss.tchncs.de
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    10 months ago

    Assertive dom. When they make me feel I really don’t have any other options than to submit.

    I’m a switch and brat and subbing doesn’t always come naturally for me. In the beginning of a scene I have a tendency to start ‘topping from the bottom’, even if I consciously try to avoid it, and the dom can’t let that happen. Once I manage to let go, I do absolutely enjoy it and can enter a deep subspace, but I can’t do it without the dom really pushing and “breaking” me first. It’s kinda hard to explain and I don’t even fully understand it myself but at least I know some other top-leaning switches I’ve talked to have had similar experiences.

  • DaddysLittleSlut@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    HAHAHAHAAAA MAKES. I AM SUBMISSIVE 99% OF THE TIME. Though more submissive. Ladies. 😭, literally one my wives has a fake named insta and I made a wholesome comment today and I was the only person she responded to and I just melted. That she acknowledged me. Even though she is my wife. 😭😭

  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    10 months ago

    It’s almost a decision sometimes.

    Being physically restrained by a guy can do it, not bondage just with his body, I had a guy once get very excited when I had the natural untrained response to him kinda throwing me down.

    Rope bondage doesn’t. It feels kind of silly.

    “Good girl” gets me every time.

  • SluttySalamander@lemmynsfw.com
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    10 months ago

    Just my partner’s desire. Especially if they display it in an assertive manner! Yes, I will do whatever you ask of me 😍