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  • First thing you need to do is get legal representation and not try to represent yourself on this issue.

    The other unfortunate comment I have, if Sora is already back in Japan, I’m very sorry to say there’s very little chance you will ever have custody again. Japanese courts will always support the side of the Japanese national in custody rights.

    Irish law has no further bearing on this case unless Sora has Irish citizenship. If he does have a dual citizenship somewhere, it’s essential that you begin legal proceedings in the country that he is a citizen of rather than Japan, it needs to be taken through the Hague. While Japan recently became a signatory to the civil abductions convention, it does not appear to have been in good faith and they use it to support Japanese nationals in kidnapping children from abroad while denying justice to parents who are foreign nationals.

    Finally, as a last resort, your only option to see him again may be to return to Japan and try to win partial custody in the courts. Or at least convince the mother (even by offering financial incentive) to allow visitation.

    Are you listed as a parent on the Koseki? Because if not, even the above will be impossible. You will not be recognized as a parent and will have no rights.












  • This is completely false though.

    Out of the three of us, the Russian rando is the only one that can realistically influence the Russian state unless you and I are willing to put our boots on and plan an invasion. He is part of the Russian polity.

    Now Putin may rule through fear, but he still only rules with the consent of the average Russian rando. If enough of them decide that they’re no longer “non-political”, Putin will no longer rule and the war can end. Frankly, that’s the only way this war is going to end. So this is entirely their responsibility.

    With that in mind, the question I raised above still stands, how many Ukrainians need to die to avoid hurting or inconveniencing the average Russian rando? Can you answer that?